In this episode, Jerry Vinci sits down with Meredith Oppenheim, a 25-year senior housing veteran who spent five years studying the 90% of older adults who never move into senior living through her groundbreaking platform, Vitality Society. Meredith reveals how the industry’s persistent 10% penetration rate isn’t a marketing failure – it’s a fundamental mismatch between what providers offer and what today’s older adults actually want. Drawing from her experience advising major operators and launching a virtual wellness community that engaged members for two hours daily during the pandemic, she shares the eight guiding principles that drive the 90% who choose to age at home: being their best version, doing meaningful work, continuous learning, and maintaining control over their lives. The conversation challenges core assumptions about readiness, revealing how the industry’s focus on frailty and care alienates active boomers who see senior living as the beginning of the end rather than a new chapter of growth.